Baptism
The sacrament of rebirth: dying and rising with Christ, washed and made a new creation.
What it is. Baptism is the doorway into the whole sacramental life. Through water and the words "I baptize you in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit," a person is joined to Christ's death and resurrection, cleansed of sin, filled with grace, and made a member of His body. It is not primarily something we do; it is something done to us: a rebirth we receive.
The deep meaning: dying and rising with Christ
Baptism is far more than a washing. The water signifies two things at once: death and life. Going down into it, the old self is buried with Christ; coming up from it, a new self rises with Him. St. Paul makes the image explicit:
Do you not know that all of us who have been baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death? We were buried therefore with him by baptism into death, in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, we too might walk in newness of life.
— Romans 6:3–4
This is why the Church calls Baptism a rebirth. Jesus told Nicodemus, "unless one is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God" (John 3:5). In it, original sin and every personal sin committed beforehand are wholly forgiven, the Holy Spirit comes to dwell in the soul, and the person becomes a true child of God and heir of heaven: not by metaphor, but in reality.
How it is done
A sacrament has a visible sign made of matter and form. For Baptism the matter is natural water, and the form is the Trinitarian words spoken while the water is applied, either by pouring it three times over the head or by immersion. The essential words come from Christ's own command:
Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.
— Matthew 28:19
Aquinas explains that plain water is the proper and necessary matter (Summa Theologiae III, Q. 66, A. 4), and that this exact Trinitarian form is required for validity (Summa Theologiae III, Q. 66, A. 5). Both pouring and immersion are valid ways of applying it (Summa Theologiae III, Q. 66, A. 7). Get the matter and form right, with the intention to do what the Church does, and the sacrament is truly conferred.
Who can baptize
The ordinary minister is a bishop, priest, or deacon. But because Baptism is necessary for salvation, the Church teaches that in a case of necessity anyone can baptize — even a non-believer — provided they use water, say the Trinitarian words, and intend to do what the Church does (CCC 1256). This is why a nurse, a parent, or a bystander may validly baptize a dying infant when no minister can be found.
Why it cannot be done twice
Baptism, like Confirmation and Holy Orders, imprints an indelible spiritual mark — a character — on the soul that configures the person to Christ forever. Because that seal can never be erased, it can never be repeated:
There is one body and one Spirit... one Lord, one faith, one baptism.
— Ephesians 4:4–5
Aquinas grounds this in the nature of the character itself: it cannot be blotted out from the soul (Summa Theologiae III, Q. 63, A. 5), and so Baptism may not be reiterated (Summa Theologiae III, Q. 66, A. 9). Even someone who falls into grave sin and later returns is not re-baptized; they are restored through Confession, because the baptismal seal was never lost. The Catechism states it plainly: "Baptism seals the Christian with the indelible spiritual mark of his belonging to Christ... given once for all, Baptism cannot be repeated" (CCC 1272).
Conditional baptism
Precisely because Baptism cannot be repeated, the Church is careful never to re-baptize someone who has already received it. Yet sometimes there is genuine, reasonable doubt about whether a valid Baptism ever took place: for example, when records are lost, when it is unclear whether water truly flowed, or when a convert's former community did not use the Trinitarian form. In those cases the Church may confer a conditional Baptism, using the form "If you are not baptized, I baptize you in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit."
This is not a second Baptism. The condition means the sacrament takes effect only if the first one was in fact invalid or never happened; if the person was already truly baptized, nothing new is conferred. Conditional Baptism is reserved for real doubt, not scruples, and is never used simply to "make sure."
Baptism of desire and of blood
Because God's grace is not confined to the sacraments He instituted, the Church recognizes that the effect of Baptism can be received without the water itself in certain cases. Someone who desires Baptism but dies before receiving it — explicitly, or implicitly through sincere love of God and the will to do His will — can be saved by the Baptism of desire. A person who suffers death for the faith before being baptized receives the Baptism of blood (CCC 1258–1260).
Aquinas already distinguished these three "baptisms" of Water, Blood, and the Spirit (Summa Theologiae III, Q. 66, A. 11), and taught that a person can be saved without the sacrament of water when it is impossible to receive, through desire for it (Summa Theologiae III, Q. 68, A. 2). None of this makes water Baptism optional for those who can receive it — the Church still urges it without delay — but it assures us that no one who truly seeks God is lost for want of what they could not obtain.
What it means for the one coming home
Everything begins here. In Baptism a person is made a new creation and a child of God, the stain of original sin and all personal sin is washed away, and the very life of God is planted in the soul. This is why the Church rejoices over a baptism the way a family rejoices over a birth: a new life has begun that death cannot end. For the one entering the faith from outside, this is the threshold the whole path has been leading toward, and, once crossed, it marks the soul forever.
Read more about the seven sacraments.